Friday, November 10, 2006

Fashion Fiasco



Gah!

My Dad's 60th birthday is in a month, and we're having a lovely luncheon down by the sea in North Wollongong, at The Lagoon Seafood Restaurant.

I'm having a dilemma.

What to wear...?

It's a week before Christmas, lunch-time thang, but in one of the better (if not the best) restaurant in Wollongong. And it's a relatively big bash - over 40 people for a sit down lunch.

What to fecking wear...?

I have a gorgeous dress, my bridesmaid dress which I wore 6 months ago, but am worried that I'll never wear it again. I could dress it down, cute flats, hair not 'up', no pancake make-up... but is it still too much...? (And also, less lumpiness - is a very unflattering shot)


Or should I do the Stepford Wife thing, all high heels, chinos and a lovely blouse...?

Coz now I'm getting worried and stressed and I hate that. I'm playing hostess for coffee and cake afterwards at our place.

Bugger bugger bugger.

15 Comments:

Blogger MissE said...

Hmmmm ...

No to the chinos. Chinos are evil.

I'd have to see the dress on a less formal you to tell - it might be a bit much (coming form jeans and t's girl though ... that's a perfectly disregardable comment).

Best o'luck.

10/11/06 10:42 am  
Blogger killerrabbit said...

I think that you should wear the bridesmaid dress - with flats and maybe a small jacket/cardie you can dress it down nicely.

What pretty material!

Also it will make your dad feel all special that you have made the effort for his bday.

10/11/06 11:23 am  
Blogger actonb said...

LaRue - You know I'd wear jeans if I could get away with it. That or a long swishy skirt and a singlet. Not doable unfortunately.

KR - tis a gorgeous dress. Made by Pilgrim (melb brand)It's a beautiful blue-grey satin, with a brown lace overlay. Which sounds gross but is lovely.
If I can get my sister to dress up, then I'm in the clear...

10/11/06 11:43 am  
Blogger Mex said...

firstly - can i say, rrrrraaoaoaoaoowwwwwww for the second time today.

and then let me say that i am having a fashion crisis of my own at the moment. i have a cocktail party on the weekend.

who holds friggen cocktail parties???

10/11/06 12:01 pm  
Blogger fingers said...

The Lagoon Seafood Restaurant...
Marvellously original.
Is that between Ming Dynasty chinese and the Aladdin's Lamp kebab hut...

10/11/06 12:46 pm  
Blogger Thursday's Child said...

Wear the dress - you can dress it down with a cardigan or jacket. It looks fab!

10/11/06 1:29 pm  
Blogger actonb said...

Cool. I shall wear the dress. I just worry about being over-dressed, but I do 'dressing down' quite well - being a complete dag and all.

Fingers - it's called 'The Lagoon' because, wait for it... it's right next to the lagoon. Yes we do like to be obvious in regional Australia.

10/11/06 1:38 pm  
Blogger Mars said...

you're hot! wear the dress :)

10/11/06 2:47 pm  
Blogger Mex said...

i think you'll be fine in the dress. the place looks posh anyway!

hurrahs! x

10/11/06 4:15 pm  
Blogger mushroom said...

Wow, you look great in that pic!

I'd say wear the dress but say no to flats!

10/11/06 4:24 pm  
Blogger actonb said...

shroom - how's about a teeny tiny kitten heel?

10/11/06 4:50 pm  
Blogger Pomgirl said...

You look fab in that dress and should wear it unless you will feel really uncomfortable. I hate feeling overdressed and usually over-compensate the other way and end up moaning about not looking pretty. Humf.

But yes, kitten heels instead of flats.

10/11/06 6:12 pm  
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11/11/06 11:18 pm  
Blogger Jen said...

I love that dress (and you are so cute)!!

I agree, a little cardi and a kitten heel would be a bit spiffy but not in a "wow, she's trying way too hard" way.

15/11/06 6:16 pm  
Blogger actonb said...

Aha!

The dress it is! And MrB is eternally grateful as this means that I only have to buy new shoes, not a whole entire outfit. So everyone's happy...

Thank you blogosphere... you've saved the day!

15/11/06 7:06 pm  

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